|photo credit - C. K. Correia 2014|
Monday, February 9, 2015
When it comes to making decisions I used to seldom ask for advice. Now I find that I seek the opinion of others. I am trying to figure out what caused this shift. What does it matter anyway, if I have eggs or fruit for breakfast!?
On a serious note, do you often find that you need the approval from others before making (life changing) decisions? Whether it is a spouse, friend, parent or sibling...does it really matter? Funny enough I am able to make bigger decisions on my own, but it is the little things that often gets too much thought.
I have found that on some level, we try to conform and go with the flow. It's almost as though it's been built into our DNA.
The truly adventurous amongst us, break away from the pack every now and then to do something extraordinary.
While to us it may seem ordinary and second nature, to conformists it may seem like a drastic risk.
At the end of the day, we have to live with ourselves and our decisions. We must have peace within in order to sleep comfortably at night and wake up with exuberance to start a new day. It matters not what others think of our life, except that we are happy.
I will continue to make my Big decisions and think less about the little ones. Tomorrow I may just splurge and have a big slice of fruit cake for breakfast instead! :-)